Are Your Words Seasoned With Love?
Have you ever said something and instantly wished that you could take it back? Unfortunately, once our words escape our tongues, they hurl into the universe, never to be recaptured again. I must confess that there have been many times that I have said things without thinking, that I later regretted.
As we all know words are powerful. We have the power to bless or curse with our tongues. Our words can build others up or tear them down. They can encourage or discourage others. Hurtful words can literally stick with a person their entire lifetime and words of encouragement can do the same.
We have all been on the receiving end of both the positive and the negative use of words. Do you remember how both felt? When someone uses their words to encourage you, you feel energized, I am sure. But, when they use words that discourage you, it deflates you and sucks the energy from you. It can also make you feel inferior as well as angry.
Let’s make a commitment to think before we speak. Even when we know that we may have to have a tough conversation, let’s pray before we speak. We can ask God to give us the perfect words for that particular situation. We should try to think of the most loving way that we can communicate what we are feeling, Let’s season our words with love.
Let’s speak life!
29 Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear.
Proverbs 15:4
4 A gentle[a] tongue is a tree of life, but perverseness in it breaks the spirit.
Proverbs 25:11
11 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver.
Proverbs 18:21
21 Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and those who love it will eat its fruits.
Proverbs 15:1
15 A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Luke 6:45
45 The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.
Colossians 4:6
6 Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.